After a bit of a summer hiatus, ok, well, a long summer hiatus, Reed’s Writing Block is back! At first I felt guilty about taking so much time off, but then I had to ask myself: isn’t taking a summer hiatus one of the perks of being self-employed?
As you know, I have two young boys with whom I love spending time, and lately, I’ve been missing the time I had with them when I wasn’t working. Lazy, unstructured summer days where we could go wherever we wanted and do whatever we wanted. This summer I made it a point to take three weeks off, so I could relive the good ole days. Mostly my boys just wanted to play with their friends, but we still managed to get in some quality time together. And putting projects on hold to do that was totally worth it.
We all make choices, and I made the choice to be self-employed so I could enjoy a certain amount of flexibility. It’s all about balance. Self-employment allows me to be there for my kids when they’re sick and can’t go to school, to spend time with them during the summer, to take family vacations. It also means I have to buckle down and work long hours to make up for that “off-time”. It’s hard sometimes, but we make it work.
What about you? Are you self-employed? How do you balance home and work life? Is your employer understanding and “family-flexible”? I’d love to hear your thoughts on the subject….